Hum ek baar jeete hain
ek baar marte hain
shaadi bhi ek hi baar hoti hai
aur pyaar bhi ek hi baar hota hai
Remember these lines from Karan Johar’s Kuch Kuch Hota Hai? Im sure you do. I was just thinking about the practicality of this quote. While the shaadi part is definitely redundant, what about the Magic word love? L-O-V-E?
There are many who firmly believe that falling in love is a once in a lifetime experience. It can never be repeated. Some even have logic for it: They say that you gave in all that you had in you for that person. So its impossible that you can be love again.
Dunno about you but it surely scares me big time. What I can infer from this is that you since you fall in love only once, you better prey that you get the love of your life coz if you do not get him/her, then there is absolutely no hope for you! YOU ARE DOOMED! 😦 😦 And that is so not fair!
While you can never love another person same way, you can have sort of a liking-affectionate type of relationships… but never that real love thingie. So basically this love thing sounds like a sure path to devastation land coz the stakes are soo very high! I mean if you get your happily-ever-after, well and good but if you dont and I think stats say that majority falls in this category, then you should be prepared to lead a sorta unfulfilled life?
I read somewhere that there are many people you can be happy with but only one who is truly your match.