I m not really a firm believer in all this fortune and luck and destiny jazz. As per me, people who cant really put in all their effort hide their failure behind these words. “I dint get it coz it was not in my destiny. That fella got it coz he was just lucky” Arrey ye kya baat hui…you are not ready to believe that other guy worked harder than you, that maybe he was more deserving than you!
Ofcourse over time i have grown with more experiences and ideologies. there has been a change though not radical per se. I do believe in destined things but only in terms of a default setting. If you make an effort then you can change the outcome.
Its something like a plane whose course is set by an auto pilot. If everything remains the same it will follow a natural course that has been decided and fed in it. but if the pilot (dats you) decides to intervene then the course and the end destination would depend on the pilot’s jurisdiction.
Again this definitely does not mean that you may waste your life without so much as moving a finger since ‘there is always a backup plan of the autopilot’. Coz in such a case, the plan is generally quite a bad one…you wont end up in a mansion if you dont strive for it.
somehow when i look at things (like a bird’s eye view), i dont understand which incidences were destined and which were result of my actions. It all so intermingled. Now you might ask y is it so important to know. It is coz if you observe the trends you can find out where you are makin the mistakes and then you can take corrective measures! Sometimes you not making an effort also results in good things. Infact, generally better den good things and our intervention leads to complications.
Pretty confusing na…care to clarify anyone?