Working Woman

I got this totally wonderful article via email and decided to share it πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ It beautifully describes the working women.

Read on…

A Working Woman

A Working Woman

Tomorrow you may get a working woman but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl who is as much educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do.

One who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are.

One who has never entered the kitchen just like you or your sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

One who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life.

One who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name.

One who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.

One who is expected to make the tea first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you.

One who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, whom she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and you inherent insecurities.

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise.

One who can be late from work once in a while, when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met.

One who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her.

One who wants just one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house- your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly- your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this…

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8 thoughts on “Working Woman

  1. I cant talk about all teh guys, but inb my case, things are diferent.

    my would be wifi dont know cooking, and I have asked her NOT to learn cooking – i know cooking and i will be taking care of the cooking part, of course, with her help. She dont have to get up early to make morning tea for me, nor do she have to forsake her likes and dislikes for me – she s a human being and an individual, and her choices and tastes remains the same. She is free to meet/call/go out with her friends – including guys, as much as she used to do, before her marriage.
    she will not leave her home or parents behind and she will not adopt my or my family name – she will be a daughter to my family and I will be a son to her family – both family will be same to us. She will keep her name as it is – there wil not be any change in that.

  2. Hmm well very valid points but I am sure there are guys out there understand such things. very few but still. Men are not all total assholes i am sure.

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